请问你要去哪里的美文摘抄
总有人在说,我现在吃苦受罪,忍辱负重,为五斗米折断腰肢,为各种应酬跑断肝肠,好累好苦,可是人人不都这样仓促奔忙,这是命里要经历的磨难。我的前路在远方。
如果你问他,那你的远方,有什么风景呢?
他两眼才放光芒,等将来,安排好一切,无忧无虑了,我就想完全放松地坐在阳光下,养猫逗狗,再捧一本书,享受悠闲时光。
那么,你现在为什么不能无忧无虑地放松晒晒太阳呢?
对方一定会有千万种理由来反驳。
当妈妈的总想,等孩子长大了,我能有心思逛街做美容。
当爸爸的会讲,等子女成家立业,我才有底气出去浏览旅行。
奋斗的老中青三代都是这样,一辈子把心态放低,低到尘埃,总是有各种各样的因为,进行着各式各样的忍耐。
因为子女,因为父母,因为伴侣,因为想要的名、利、誉,太多太多……忍耐庸常的岁月,以为可以积攒足够的金钱;有了足够的金钱,才去添置与众不同的东西,提升自己的品位。那么在你庸常得无聊的时候,走远一些,去看看外面的世界,是否价钱不贵,就可以与众不同,并非披金戴银,些许改变,就可以坐拥品质?
忍耐了一世,当你收获地位、金钱、名誉的时候,却惊讶地发现,你已经失去了健康、心情和时间,甚至为之奔忙想要通往的前路,已经消失得无影无踪。喜欢美食的,已经没有胃口;喜欢旅行的,却又没有健康;喜欢看书的,却已是老眼昏花,头脑昏沉。
有生之年,有力之时,且行且珍惜,当下选择当下行,当下喜爱当下做,不要无谓受罪,压抑自我。
不是教你不去磨炼,不去努力,丝毫没有忍耐。而是不要本末倒置,颠倒黑白,忘记生命的本质,忘记你真正想要的是什么。
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1、运用NLP提升你需要的能力美文摘抄
优良状态是自己需要的能力都在手边,可以全部运用时的状态。我们每一个人都曾经做过一些感到骄傲的事,或者受到自己重视的人的赞赏,或者取得令人惊讶的成就,这些经验可以证明自己有所需的能力。
这套,便是把这些能力变得容易提取可以随传随到。如果你感到自己某些能力不足(内心的能力,例如、冲动、冷静、幽默等),可以用这个帮助自己重新掌握。
开始之前,先选定一个运用自己身体便可做出的经验掣,例如用右手紧握左手小指(以下过程以1此为例)。重要的是,这个动作在过去不会经常习惯地做出来。
经验掣
(1)步骤(以右手紧握左手小指为经验掣)。
回忆一次过人成就,或者感到骄傲的经验中包含的所需的内心能力。把自己带回当时的景象、声音及内心感受。调校光线使变得更光亮,颜色更鲜艳,景物更清晰及放大。调校声音使更接近自己,更大声,把感觉亦调校得强一点。
(2)达到这境界时,心中感觉的强烈程度增加,当快到最高点时,便用右手紧握左手小指,享受这种感觉一会儿。(若有需要,可在握指之前做几次大力吸气,以加强力量。)当这个感觉开始下降时,须马上放手。
(3)打破状态,即去想一些无关事物(例如昨晚吃过什么)。
(4)再回忆该次经验,重做(1)、(2)及(3),如是者数次。
(5)用右手紧握左手小指,看看那愉快而强烈的感觉需时多久才涌现。若太慢则重做(1)、(2)及(3)数次(注意所选择的经验是否有负面的因素,回忆的过程中是否太粗率,若仍无效,改选另外一个经验和经验掣)。亦可以用数个有同类正面感觉的经验,加入同一经验掣中,把储于经验掣的能力大大提升。
(6)是每当右手紧握左手小指时,该愉快而强的感觉在一两秒内便能涌现。
(7)做未来测试,即想像下次有需要运用该能力的场合,试塑造当时的景物及声音,然后右手紧握左手小指,看看内心的力量如何涌出,因而应付当时情况的能力加强了。
过去的经验固然可以带回当时的`内心能力,用经验掣储留,因而能够随要随有;经想像而产生的经验亦会有同样的效果。例如一个心不足的人,觉得过去没有显示充分的经验可供提用,可以运用以下的3种“借力”方法。
(1)“借力”方法之一
假想自己完成一件十分自豪的事,在脑中设计出的景象和声音,即环境布置、灯光色彩、人物景象等,并且是像电影般的动画,加上别人说话的声音、背景杂声或音乐,自己内心的话等。
(2)“借力”方法之二
想出一个有此能力的人,想像他站在不远处,向他要求借取这份能力,并且向他保证,能力不会因借出分享而减少。当他答应点头后,想像他扬手洒出代表这份能力的光粉(见图11—3)。想像这阵光粉像雨点般降落在自己的身上,感受一下能力进人自己身体里的感觉。
(3)“借力”方法之三
想出一个有此能力的人,回想上次(或者一次)见到他在台上演说的模样
注意台上射到他身上的灯光特别明亮;他的声音很有力,吸引全场人士的注意。
然后想像自己站起来,向他走去。途中看到台上的他越来越清晰,他的声音越来越响亮,路过的两边人群的投入也越来越强烈。然后你走上台,站在他身旁,一同面向群众,看到观众被你俩吸引着。
你听到的声音就在旁边响起,所以很响亮清晰,内心的感觉因此很强烈。然后,你横走一步,进入他的身体里。
现在,你已成为他,话从你的内心产生,经口中涌出,吸引着所有观众,眼中见到的观众完全被你吸引着。内心产生的越来越强烈,再用大力吸气的方式,把这份能力的感觉加强。
2、英文文章美文摘抄汇总86句
"Today, you see that I am still in this company, which is because I once met a wise man, who told me a workplace truth at my most hesitant time, in the workplace, I want to turn myself into water and be put into any container.
This is a friend of mine, A Qiang, who works in a famous company. He has a master"s degree and his talent in mold design ability. But he can"t get the promotion and reuse of the company leader. Because he is only focused on technology and does not take time to engage in relationships.
Finally, in charge of the intolerable supervisor when could not play fast and loose, Jiagongjisi, he decided to resign. When he submitted his letter of resignation, he met a manager of a neighbouring department at the staircase, because there were only a few sides with him. The two people smiled and greeted each other.
The manager saw a strong hand on the letter of resignation, a look of surprise, he said: "if you have another job, congratulations to you. If you are in charge of your department, you have to think about it: you must learn how to get along with different people, otherwise you will always meet such a person, and then lose your mind.
This is not too familiar with the manager"s words, all of a sudden when it comes to the tip. A lot of people in the workplace angrily stumbled does not understand the problem, the original only in this short a few words.
John was shocked. After that, he ripped the letter back to the post, practicing how to get along with hate charge, although he still does not agree with some things against his principles, but he began to seriously, try to look on the bright side of things, and thus also changed from confrontation between supervisor and.
A year later, because of a strong business is outstanding, company to set up a branch, and served as a responsible person.
He often meet that he learned from a few words of the manager, the manager still has a cool look. Although a strong never asked him to say thank you, but he will always remember the day when I met, the wise man in the staircase, a few words of light, open a frozen and full of corners of the original stone heart.
3、英文文章美文摘抄汇总86句
A little monkey picks up a pumpkin and wants to takeithome.Butthepumpkinistoobig.The monkey can’t take it home.
Suddenly he sees a panda riding a bike towards him. He watches the bike. “l have a good idea. I can roll the pumpkin. It likes a wheel.”
So he rolls the pumpkin to his home. When his mother sees the big pumpkin, she is surprised and says, “How can you carry it home?” The little monkey answers proudly, “l can’t lift it, but l can roll it.” His mother smiles and says, “ What a clever boy!”
4、英文文章美文摘抄汇总86句
Tony is seven years old. He is an honest and polite boy. One day, it was Sunday. Tony, his sister and his mother stayed at home. He was watching TV and his sister was reading books. His mother was washing clothes. Just then, his father came back with a bag
of pears. Tony likes pears very much and he wanted
to eat one. His mother gave him four and said, “Let’s sharethem.” “Whichpeardo youwant, Tony?” asked his mother. “The biggest one, mum.” “What?” said his mother, “You should be polite and want the smallest one.” “Should I tell a lie just to be polite, mum?”
5、英文文章美文摘抄汇总86句
There are three trees near the house. There is a big tree, and two small trees.
In the big tree there is a bird. Can the bird sing? Yes, it can. What’s under the big tree? It’s a cat.
“I want some food,” thinks the cat. “Bird, my good friend, Come here! It’s time to play games” says the cat.
“No today, thank you!” says the bird, “You can’t catch me! Goodbye!” Look! The bird is flying!
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